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ADOPT A KID!.....IF IT DOESNT WORK IT...RETURN TO SENDER!.....?

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Post by shadiqs_mom on Fri Oct 02, 2009 1:38 pm

when i listen to this...all i hear is I, I, I, I, I, I, and some more I's...like it was her getting adopted where is HIS voice? i want to know? where? SMDH!!!

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Post by Missarcasm on Fri Oct 02, 2009 1:54 pm

Ugh.

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Post by Black Angel on Mon Oct 05, 2009 12:04 am

Unfortunately, you have some people who look at having or adopting a kid as if it were like buying something from the store.. or ordering something from a restaurant.. if you don't like what you get then take it back..

I'm not sure that I buy the bonding story because there have been feral children raised by animals in the wild.. and these children were later reunited with their families and had to be re-introduced into society. You'd think that if she did love that kid that she'd stick it out longer.. but, I'm sure she did as best she could and made what she thought was the right decision.

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Post by Divine on Tue Oct 06, 2009 9:01 pm

I saw the interview and I think that she did what's best for the child. What I don't understand is how she could love the baby but not feel any connection to him. I think that it wasn't the baby who had trouble bonding, it was likely her. Love covers a whole lot of stuff, this is a baby not a grown man so he would've eventually bonded with her if she truly loved him.

I wonder how her children and husband felt. I think that she got more than she bargained for. It looks like she had four or five kids of her own and to adopt a child from special circumstances would require more time and work than she was able to give. Children like that need extra, extra love and attention.

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Post by Missarcasm on Wed Oct 07, 2009 7:43 am

^^^I agree.

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Post by shadiqs_mom on Wed Oct 07, 2009 7:59 am

i agree as well...again all i heard in the interview was I I I I I I...like com'on you ADOPTED a child...like i know having one child with special needs as well that if im going to adopt a child that requiers even MORE time...i better be ready. To give a child back pains me...like what it going thru his head? when he is old enough to understand?...really unfair

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