All is fair in love and war

I agree Earl. If Im in love with someone I would never cheat on them or even look at someone in that way.

I wonder if its mostly men. Men leave their wifes for a younger woman...or a sexier woman or for whatever...or does it go both ways

^^^Yes it goes both ways. But sometimes I uderstand why people leave their partner for someone else because if that person isnt making you happy and you know your relationship isnt going anywhere and if your not married why not give someone else a try. That's what I did, I left my ex and started talking to someone else and even if we dont work out I'll still be glad that I left my ex because that wasnt going anywhere.

BUt heres there problem with some of it...the person on the other end has NO CLUE that you are not making them happy then one day all of a suddend they are gone!!

This is where communication comes in....don't be afraid to TALK to each other...don't be afraid to express how u are feeling and what you are going through...just don't sit back and HOPE one day he/she will make you happy because they may think they are.

^^^I agree but here's the thing I told him how I felt but all he would do is talk over me and not listen. He didnt seem to care and he started doing things that showed that he didnt care. Some people just arent good for you at all.