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Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

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Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by BlackBeauty on Tue Aug 11, 2009 5:31 pm

When men get mad why do they have to result in calling that woman a bitch? Especially, when their not a bitch. I think that’s the most disrespectful thing to call a woman. Have you ever been called out of your name by a man? Why?

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by Kamariasmommy09 on Tue Aug 11, 2009 5:40 pm

yes I have.....my ex 3 years ago called me a bitch because he was cheating and one night I was out he kept calling my phone but I wouldn't answer so he called me out of my name on voice mail...never to my face though. I don't understand why men do this but they need to get it together....they won't talk to their mom or grandmother like that so why do it to other females?

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by steshasweetie on Wed Aug 12, 2009 12:42 am

not in recent times, but when i was in high school there was this boy that i was mean to sometimes for some reason... he was white and one day he had on a du-rag and so i said to him "why do u have that on? its not like its going to do anythig YOUR hair".... he looked at me and said "god stesha why do you have to be such a bitch all the time!" and walked away. lol i was stuck... there was nothing i could really say... ill never forget that.

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by swtearl on Wed Aug 12, 2009 1:41 am

Because they think it hurts the woman. My thing is this...If you know your not one...let it roll off your back. It only shows how much of a BOY that dude is.

I have a friend whos boyfriend always calls her a bitch and she takes it like its nothing....THIS I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!!

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Post by steshasweetie on Wed Aug 12, 2009 1:12 pm

i had a conversation with one of my best friends who is a male. he and all his friends call their girlfriends "my bitch". like "im at my bitch house" stuff like that. he really tried to explain to me that it was a term of endearment.... i looked at him like he was crazy. i explained this to him and his friends and i still say this.... if i ever heard any guy i was with refer to me as "his bitch" we would be over.. just like that. any girl that stays with a dude and even worse condones a dude that calls her a bitch is a dumb ass broad and is an embarassment to all women.

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Post by kekeluv on Wed Aug 12, 2009 1:54 pm

yeah i was recently call a bitch, cause i answered his phone at 1230 am. When i relized it was a text i read it (mind you we were together 9 yrs), and it was some chick thanking him for the money for her rent and just saying good nite, complementing his sex appeal, and reminding him to bring her a case of wine tomorrow. So I asked for some money, of course he didn't have it (let him tell it) so of course i mentions what he had done for the chick and out of nowhere i became i BITCH!!!!( to the 3rd power too). but hay i had him backed in a shit hole and a corner with no way out......

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Post by kekeluv on Wed Aug 12, 2009 1:58 pm

When some men is at a loss for words or just got caught up, they do this to get us off that aaaaaassssss!!! But to me there is no excuse for this....

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Post by shadiqs_mom on Fri Aug 14, 2009 9:25 am

uhhhhh....why do some females call other females bitches?...why do g/f's call their g/f's bitches???....its can for endermant...or for condensending reasons...no other reasons but those 2

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Post by BlackBeauty on Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:46 pm

^^^What? lol. I dont think that has anything to do with it. Some guys jut do it out of anger even if they know it's not even true.

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by BlackBeauty on Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:05 pm

For me there was a few times where I was disrespected. The first time it was my first year in college and I had a friend back in Miami that was a male. To make a long story short, he called me a bitch because I didn’t find him attractive and I would not sleep with him. Our friendship was never that kind of relationship and I didn’t see him in that kind of way. He got mad called me puss ass bitches and all that kind of shuff, then tried to tell me sorry. I haven’t spoke to him since.

The second time I was called that was because I refused to give some guy my number. He yelled hey lil mama or something like that, said something about me having a nasty walk and I wasn’t even sure if he was talking to me since it was a crowded place I just kept walking and there were a lot of women in there. So he hey you in the purple and I turned and still kept walking. All of a sudden he started saying damn bitch fuck you and so on and so on. It was so bad, people started coming up to me saying forget him, he’s an asshole. I think someone reported him and he got kicked out. By the way, it was a bank.

And third and final time was not long ago. More like last week. I started talking to this guy behind my bf’s back, but, then decided that I could not start a successful relationship if I was still in a relationship, so I told the guy that I was dealing with some issues and he would be better off just talking to someone who would have time for him. He got mad said and told me fuck you, you ugly anyway and you know what comes after that lol. I didn’t deserve to be called a bitch for any of that, at lease I don’t think so. By the way I only known him for 4 days!!!! I think guys do it because some how it empowers them by degrading someone else. When guys disrespect me I just them that it’s you stupidly that causes them to degrade another human being when they don’t get their way.

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by shadiqs_mom on Fri Aug 14, 2009 10:55 pm

and some girls do it out of anger...its all the same...so a female can call a girl she doesnt like a bitch...all her homegirls agree...a man says it....OOOMMMGGGG!! y would you call her out her name????...lol...com'on a man may call a women a bitch the SAME reasons why a female is gng to call another a bitch...or saw a man as a bitch....just like calling em hoes...bc we ALLLLLLL have felt some female was a lil "loose" and saw her as a hoe...a man calls her a hoe....mmmmm the world needs to end and he needs to be hung....lol lol lol whats the issue here?...now in a RELATIONSHIP...heeeeeeeeeeeeeeellll no...a disrespectful PERSON just randomingly doing it....no....but trust there is a time and a place for everything

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by BlackBeauty on Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:03 am

shadiqs_mom wrote:and some girls do it out of anger...its all the same...I never said it was not the same, but that's not the topic!!!! so a female can call a girl she doesnt like a bitch...all her homegirls agree...a man says it....OOOMMMGGGG!! y would you call her out her name????...lol...com'on a man may call a women a bitch the SAME reasons why a female is gng to call another a bitch...or saw a man as a bitch....just like calling em hoes...bc we ALLLLLLL have felt some female was a lil "loose" and saw her as a hoe...a man calls her a hoe....mmmmm the world needs to end and he needs to be hung....Who said the world needs to end or that he should even be killed? I said it was wrong and immature nothing more and nothing less. lol lol lol whats the issue here?...now in a RELATIONSHIP...heeeeeeeeeeeeeeellll no...a disrespectful PERSON just randomingly doing it....no....but trust there is a time and a place for everything



Okay Im confused. This topic was not about women calling other woman bitches and what not, it’s about men disrespecting women. But if you only experienced it from women go ahead and add it. Also, they are both wrong, but my topic isn’t addressing them both. My topic is addressing men who disrespect women to try and degrade them just because they were mad or whatever. I personally don’t think it’s causes a major impact when a female calls another female a bitch, but if it was a man, I think it would hurt a little more. Besides that’s why I posted it in the ladies section because it was addressed to the ladies and to see how often men do it.

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Post by shadiqs_mom on Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:45 am

ok blackbeauty....uhmmm...yea i was being sar-cas-tic when i said hung and killed...it was just a fig-ure of spe-ech...uhmmmm yea idk what else to tell you.....................................you give a topic...i point out my view...and my view is it goes both ways..."nothing more nothing less"

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Post by BlackBeauty on Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:50 am

I know what a figure of speech is of course Arrow , I just gave you my view too nothing more nothing less.

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Re: Why Do Men Result To Calling a Woman a Bitch?

Post by Missarcasm on Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:20 am

Bitch is a derogatory term used to inferiorate a female. Guys do use it to hurt a woman's feelings b/c he doesn't have control of her and/or the situation. Just like whites used nigger to degrade blacks back in the day b/c they felt it necessary to control them by getting at them mentally and emotionally.

I have been called a bitch and I didn't like it b/c I am one of the nicest people in the world. If I stand up for myself or I am opposed to something you do or say, all of a sudden, I'm a bitch. WHATEV!!!

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