octomom vs Michelle dugger

i dont see how the media can talk about she shouldnt have more babies than she already have when michelle dugger having her 19th child.what i can think of is cause she has a man .thats the only reason why i think people is not on her like octomom.i dont care she has a man or not.who would have that many kids?.i think a year or 2 she just had her 18th baby.

Not only does she have a man but they are pretty self sufficient and had money BEFORE they had kids. I don't see how she does it...and just last year she had their 18th.

ok yea....THERE IS A VAST OF DIFFERENCES between nadyia and michelle....to start off...parenting skills lol...

shorty if u dont see the many differences i dont know what to tell ya

umm shorty? you really dont see the difference. well here is one obvious one: one of them can actually financially support their children. secondly, one wants to look like angelina jolie while the other one wants to stay the same. third, octomom is just crazy....lol she is not really crazy but she did not put into consideration long enough whether she could take care of those kids by herself. I always hate seeing when people who are poor or in financial trouble having kids because then they make their own children suffer. All parents should make sure they can actually take care of their kids. For someone who received a Bachelor of Science degree in child and adolescent development......she is kind of..... No one is saying she should not have all those kids. What most people are saying is if you are going to have all of the kids, make sure you have the money to take care of them. You had the kids, so you take care of them. If her situation was different like she was making a lot of money but then faced a financial road block, then I could understand. Lets not be senseless. Thank God I am not working right now because I would have been so heated knowing that my tax money was going to someone who did not think fully about having all those kids knowing her current financial status.

^^^Agreed.

Well said BK, I agree, lets not forget that Michelle Duggar is obligated to have the kids and not allowed to prevent a pregnancy from happening.

That was why I laughed hard when Octomom had the nerve to talk about Kate Gosselin's surgery. Granted, kate does seem like a bitch, but at the very least she had a man, and they were, and still are working to support their kids. All octomom did was use her student loans to finance her hobby of having kids, and then turn around and use welfare to support it. The only reason she has money now, is because of all of the publicity she has gotten, as well as her tv show. I feel bad for the kids.. really I do.

Black Angel wrote:Well said BK, I agree, lets not forget that Michelle Duggar is obligated to have the kids and not allowed to prevent a pregnancy from happening.

That was why I laughed hard when Octomom had the nerve to talk about Kate Gosselin's surgery. Granted, kate does seem like a bitch, but at the very least she had a man, and they were, and still are working to support their kids. All octomom did was use her student loans to finance her hobby of having kids, and then turn around and use welfare to support it. The only reason she has money now, is because of all of the publicity she has gotten, as well as her tv show. I feel bad for the kids.. really I do.

O that is very true. I forgot that the Duggars dont use any form of protection against pregnancy.

and boy do they have ALLOOOOTTTTT OF SEX!

shadiqs_mom wrote:and boy do they have ALLOOOOTTTTT OF SEX!

lol they are definitely the energizer bunnies....

Wasn't it written in the bible that the woman is to be submissive unto her husband.. I also heard that the husband is entitled to get it whether his wife wants it or not.. so it is like, either she gives in, or he takes it..

^^^and with that, comes ppl (men) taking that line out of context....bc it says in the bible that a man should love his wife as he loves the church (JESUS)...so in that is the submissive

Black Angel wrote:Wasn't it written in the bible that the woman is to be submissive unto her husband.. I also heard that the husband is entitled to get it whether his wife wants it or not.. so it is like, either she gives in, or he takes it..

That is sooo not true.

^^^Im with Divine on this one. I dont know the Bible all that good, but that just dont sound right.

Divine wrote:

Black Angel wrote:Wasn't it written in the bible that the woman is to be submissive unto her husband.. I also heard that the husband is entitled to get it whether his wife wants it or not.. so it is like, either she gives in, or he takes it..

That is sooo not true.

The first part is true but men overdo it. The second part is not true. I know according to muslim religion, the older brother of the family has to make sure he has things to give his family when he passes on.
Ephesians 5:21-32 Say thats a woman should submit to her husband in all things but at the same time the husband should love their wives. Present her well.